I want to go out and he wants to stay in

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A couple arguing about what activity to do together. She wants to go out but he wants to stay in. These “wants” are strategies to get needs/values met. They choose to go below strategies to investigate the needs-that-inform-those-strategies using “Practical Empathy Practice (PEP)” based on the book “A Practical EmPath: Rewire Your Mind” (get it here) and Nonviolent Communication (NVC). This allows them to see there are other strategies to meet their needs/values. So when each “player” sees there are multiple ways (strategies) to get their needs/values met, they realize some of those ways work for both of them.

We all need more empathy!

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